Baking Instead of Bullying

Over 120 students and staff members of University Park Elementary school contributed to our Thanksgiving day feast by baking about 200 dessert items as a part of "Bullying Prevention Week". Charlotte Observer has the story:

“Our staff decided that we would observe Bullying Prevention Week by teaching students how they should treat others,” said Carrie Sargent, school psychologist at University Park, a performing arts magnet school off Beatties Ford Road in northwest Charlotte.

Read the whole story here.

Rev. Billy Graham's Letter

Many of you probably already know that Franklin Graham, father of evangelist Billy Graham, was one of Charlotte Rescue Mission's founders in 1938.

In honor of our 70th year, Rev. Billy Graham has written a letter acknowledging his father's involvement. Our newsletter contains the letter so if you are on our mailing list, you've probably already seen it. If not, click here to request a free copy of the letter.

Volunteers Serve on Thanksgiving Day

News 14 Carolina published the following story regarding the volunteer servers on Thanksgiving day:

CHARLOTTE – Although the Charlotte Rescue Mission has been serving meals for the past 70 years, volunteers pulled out all the stops Thursday for a special Thanksgiving.

About 30 employees from the Dilworth Neighborhood Grille worked in the kitchen cooking and in the dining room serving.

"We're actually bringing tableside service so people can have the opportunity to order eggs however they want and actually pick off a small menu," Chris Alves, of the Dilworth Neighborhood Grille, said.

Read the whole article here.

Thanksgiving at the Mission

Not everyone gets a chance to come down to the mission for a holiday so many of our supporters don't know what it's like. Last year, we broke a record for number of meals served in one day and we expect to break it again this year. Here is a video we made last year to share what it is like:

Dedication of the Pavilion

On November 11, 2008 we dedicated our new pavilion area at our main campus located in uptown Charlotte. This pavilion was made possible by the Carolina Panthers, Al & Judy Oldja, Jerry & Lynn Swisshelm, Concrete Supply Co and Shelco Inc. Below you can see a video of this dedication and a before and after photo.

Cold Weather Affecting Local Shelters

The Charlotte Observer posted this story today on the recent cold weather and its effect on local homeless shelters.

Officials opened the Emergency Winter Shelter near uptown in October – a month earlier than previous years – to help homeless men escape the cold.

One night earlier this week, the shelter served more than 300 meals – the largest number ever on a non-holiday.

The average number of meals served at the shelter has jumped to 225 a night from 165 two years ago, said Tony Marciano, executive director of the Charlotte Rescue Mission, which provides for the shelter.

If you include the meals at Rebound & Dove's Nest, the number we served was actually over 700 meals that day.

Volunteers At Dove's Nest

Erin shares her recent volunteer experience at Dove's Nest. Thanks Erin!

Never Too Young to Help

At the mission, we always have wonderful success stories to share about our clients but it seems like every year we have at least one or two heart warming stories from our supporters as well - especially around the holidays.

If you read our newsletter, you may remember the story of a young girl who sells lemonade each year and donates the proceeds to the mission. This year, we received the following flyer in the mail from an eight year old named Sylvia along with her very generous donation. Sylvia typed this flyer up herself and handed them out in her neighborhood to raise money for the mission. We thought we'd share it with you to show that it's never too early to get involved with helping others and every amount is appreciated. Thank you Sylvia!

Is It Too Early For Christmas Shopping?

If you're like most people these days - you probably responded with an emphatic "yes!" After all, we haven't even reached Thanksgiving yet and just barely finished with Halloween.

But I'm not talking about shopping for family, I'm talking about shopping for those who don't have a family. I'm thinking of those who probably don't have anyone shopping for them at all.

Our annual Christmas catalog is a great project for a small church group or office team to do just that. You can download and print this PDF and put together a drive with your small group to do some Christmas shopping for those less fortunate even if it seems quite early. While we are certainly in the middle of heavy preparations for Thanksgiving, we're already looking ahead to Christmas.

The Holidays are a critical fund raising period for us. In these next two months alone, we need to raise nearly 40% of our annual budget.

Thank You Note From a Mother

Let me share a “thank you” from a mother whose son was provided hope: “I have a son who recently became a resident there, and am so gratified to know that he is there. I would like to do something to help and this Amy Grant/Vince Gill concert seems to be an event that our family would love to attend. I worked in this field in various places, some of which are now closed. I am very thankful that there is still a place like Charlotte Rescue Mission to help folks with the life-robbing problem of addiction. God bless all of you there and many thanks for helping my son.”

Weather & Economy Affecting Demand for Shelters

Last night, WCNC aired this story on how the weather and economy are affecting the demand for homeless shelters in Charlotte. Cold temperatures have arrived in Charlotte earlier than usual and combined with economic uncertainty and a housing crisis, this means increased demand for local homeless shelters.

Tony Burbeck reports:

At the Charlotte Rescue Mission, hot meals cooked here then given to the Emergency Winter Shelter for men are up 30 percent.

"Sometimes it becomes harder for people that are in crisis to either get jobs or hold onto jobs,” said Rev. Tony Marciano.

It's important to realize two things about Charlotte Rescue Mission. While we are affected by the economy and to some degree the weather, our beds stay full year round. We always have a waiting list. But on the other hand, as WCNC reported, we do feel the increased demand of food preparation this time of the year because we prepare the meals for the Emergency Winter Shelter.

Like anyone else, the economic impact for us can be significant. We rely entirely on private donations as we do not accept any government or United Way funding.

What Happens to Clients After CRM?

We're often asked about our clients and what happens to them after they complete the program. Our supporters are thrilled to learn that after a year, over 70% are still living a clean and sober life. But the statistics can't reflect the stories we see every day behind the scenes - the ones that aren't necessarily publicized.

Just the other day, a former client stopped by the mission (this happens regularly). Graduating from Rebound in the late 90s, he is now a successful businessman with his masters degree. In fact, he is currently working on his Ph. D.

It's not every day that a former client walks in but it does happen and we're always excited to learn about the success they have gone on to achieve.

Chicken Soup for the Charlotte Soul

Beginning this week, Rev. Marciano is giving a series on our CrossPath radio ministry called "Chicken Soup for the Charlotte Soul". In these uncertain times, it is important to remind ourselves that God is still in control. Click here to listen online.

Hope for the Hungry 2008

Our theme this holiday season is "Hope for the Hungry, Hope for the Holidays". You may have seen it in one of our letters or on our web page. Here are some of the items we need and some of the ways you can help us provide "hope for the hungry" in 2008.

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Auction Items Preview

Time is running out to get your tickets for this year's charitable auction to be held on Saturday, October 25 at the Wachovia Atrium at 6:00 PM.

Click here for more information and to purchase tickets online or call Lynn Swisshelm at 704-334-4635 x256.

Here are just some of the incredible items that will be up for bid:

• Weekend at Private home High Meadows Golf & Country Club in Roaring Gap NC
• Be a Star! Throw the first pitch at a Knights game and enjoy the evening with friends in their 14 seat skybox at Knights Stadium with bottomless snack foods and drinks included.
• African Photo Safari for two, 6 days/nights with all accommodations (airfare not included)
• The Culinary Institute of America's 50 Piece Master's Collection
• Handyman for a Day!!
• One week stay at Xanadu II Oceanfront condo in Myrtle Beach. and foursome for 18-holes of golf at International World Tour Golf Complex in Myrtle Beach SC
• Be a Star! Two are invited to a practice of the 2008 Carolina Panthers and receive a Panther football signed by Julius Peppers.
• 3 Night Stay at Leatherwood Mountains Resort
• Beautiful 18 Carat White Gold Dove Pendant & Chain
• Five Nights at Beautiful 2BR St. Simon Island Condo, St. Simon's Island, GA
• Dinner for Eight Delivered to Your Door once a month for six months.
• XBOX 360 Elite System, Office Ultimate Software, remote control airplane, tools . . .
• One week at Beautiful Isle of Palms Beach house - 5 br 5 1/2 ba easy walk to beach, massive rooftop deck, large covered front and back porches, 4 car garage, 3 stop elevator, in-ground private pool & hot tub, gourmet kitchen, hardwood floors, outdoor entertaining area with gas grill, laundry facilities, gas fireplace in 1st floor living area and master br, flat screen tvs and cable in each bedroom, linens and towels provided.
• Be a Star! - Take your family of four to Disney – Airfare for two, four one-day park hopper passes and fabulous lodging for three nights at Star Island Resort.
• Night Out on the Town! You and five friends enjoy the luxury of a limousine and $200.00 dinner gift certificate at Nobles Restaurant
• Pastel Mink Coat Fur
• 2 Club level seats at Charlotte Bobcats game and Autographed Jersey by Emeka Okefor.
• Sapphires & Diamonds – four gorgeous pieces of jewelry – pendant, ring, bracelet and earrings.
• Monday Night Football – Live – 5 upper level tickets for Carolina Panthers vs. Tampa Bay Dec. 8, includes tailgating parking
• Sexy in Queen City – Night of pampering for six ladies
• And much more . . . tickets to performances, fabulous child’s birthday package, fantastic gift baskets, restaurant gift certificates, hotel stays, Carolina Panthers 2003 Superbowl team signed football, three to play golf with Colin Branch former Panthers .. . . . something for everyone!!!!

We Need Turkey & Ham For Thanksgiving

On Thanksgiving day, our doors will open to hundreds of homeless and destitute men and women who have nowhere else to celebrate this holiday. They won't stand in line to receive a bowl of soup though - they'll be seated by a volunteer maitre d' at a table covered with white linen and folded napkins. They'll be served by volunteers who'll bring them a warm plate of food, a cold drink and a home made dessert. Maybe for the first time in their life, they'll feel like a VIP guest.

Here's where we need your help... Our low meal cost of just $1.92 is made possible by volunteers and donated food. We plan to cook 120 turkeys and 80 hams for Thanksgiving day alone! Please consider donating a full turkey or ham for our Thanksgiving dinner anytime between now and November 21st. These can be dropped off at our main location at 907 West First St.

Picnic in the Park

Third Ward will host the second annual "Picnic in the Park" on Saturday, October 18th at Frazier Park uptown. Charlotte Rescue Mission, just down the street from Frazier Park, is participating in the planning of this community event. Click here to read more & if you live or work in Third Ward, we hope to see you there.

First of 200,000 Meals

On October 1st, the Emergency Winter Shelter (managed by Charlotte Rescue Mission) opened its doors to provide emergency services for Charlotte's homeless. Throughout its 6 month operation, Charlotte Rescue Mission will provide about 80% of the meals to be served there which means our daily meals will increase from 400 to 600.

Over the course of a year, we will serve about 200,000 meals and October 1st is just the beginning. Check out this coverage and video from WBTV News Channel 3.

Family Spends Saturday at CRM

A local family shares their experience volunteering to serve food at Charlotte Rescue Mission on a recent Saturday:

Well, we’ve been talking about doing it for about a year and have just never got around to it. That is, until today. No vacations, no yard work, no birthday parties, no lazy, Saturday sleep-ins. No Excuses. Just good old family fun. Spending a Saturday with a bunch of addicts.

Former addicts, that is. Thanks to the Charlotte Rescue Mission (CRM).

Be sure to read the whole story at their blog, Heirhead. Thanks guys!

New Website Design

Our main web page has been totally redesigned. Check it out and let us know what you think.

Dove's Nest Needs Coats

Dove's Nest is in need of ladies coats in good condition. Currently they could use a petite size and several larger sizes (around 16).

Of course, it's a bit early to start talking about Christmas but our newly re-opened Dove's Nest Continuing Care Division (CCD) could use Christmas decorations.

Some other things that the women at Dove's Nest are in need of are: slippers, PJ's, gift cards, lotions, picture frames etc... See our full needs list for more details.

NRI Press Conference

Dove's Nest Gets a New Ramp

Joe Savage received his Eagle Scout rank after completing a project for Charlotte Rescue Mission. Eagle Scout is the highest rank attainable in the boy scouting program. He helped build a new wheelchair ramp at Dove’s Nest. As you can see, the ramp was literally falling down before they built the new one.
There were 23 volunteers who worked on this project with a combined total of 158 hours.

Thanks everyone!

What About the Spouse Who Never Goes to Church?

Recently, I wrote an article aimed at pastors which was the second in a series marking National Alcohol & Drug Addiction Recovery Month entitled "What about the Spouse Who Never Joins the Family at Church?"

Most of you pastors probably don't have parishioners coming to your Sunday morning service staggering in the aisle and hollering during the time of prayer. Instead, you may have a woman who comes to that Sunday service without her husband, while he "sobers up from tying one on" the night before.

Read the whole article here.

2008 Benefit Auction - Starry Starry Night

On Saturday October 25th, Charlotte Rescue Mission will host its annual benefit auction. This year's auction will be held at the Wachovia Atrium uptown at 6:00 PM.You can buy your tickets online or visit our dedicated web site for more information. If you have questions, please call Lynn Swisshelm at 704-334-4635 ext 256.

A Chance to Accept God's Gift

I continue to stand in awe of the baggage the women bring to Dove’s Nest. Abusive childhood leads to abusive adulthood. The pain of existence is numbed through the use of drugs and alcohol. Today, through the generosity of our supporters, they are learning that what was normal in their past is not a part of God’s plan for their future. Dove's Nest gives them the chance to accept the gift of His love and plan He has for their life.

Be assured they constantly tell me to tell our supporters “thank you”.

Seven More Days

I want you to remember this phrase - “seven more days”.

That is the amount of time a particular client had remaining before he would finish the Mission’s Rebound program. As we talked, he shared the challenges he would be facing upon graduation. He wanted our supporters to know that through their kindness and generosity, they had given him the tools he needed so that the streets became a “thing of the past”. I watched pain on his face as he talked about his past and hope come across his face as we finished our conversation.

The gifts of our supporters and their compassion has given him the gift of a brighter tomorrow.

BBQ & Bluegrass

Last Thursday, the Charlotte chapter of the Safari Club International held their first annual Summer Barbeque Feast at Charlotte Rescue Mission. Food was provided by seven different Charlotte area restaurants including MomBack BBQ, Belle Acres Golf and Country Club, Morehead Street, Capital Grille, Dressler’s Restaurant, McKoy’s Smokehouse and Bonterra.Music was provided by Bluegrass band: The New Dixie Pharaohs. This was all provided free of charge to our clients. CRM wishes to express our sincerest gratitude on behalf of our clients to everyone who was involved.

God's Unconditional Love

It’s a special blessing when someone calls to thank you for making the message of God’s love through Christ real. This is what one of our CrossPath listeners did.

Joshua called to say, “I heard you on the radio. Thank you for talking about the unconditional love of Jesus. I really appreciate you telling me how much God really loves us unconditionally.”

I was touched by the way he kept referring to the word, “Unconditional”. It was as if a chord had been played in his soul that was never strummed before. The message of the gospel was finally resonating in his heart and life.

Listen to CrossPath on the web.

Prayer Request & Success Story

Let me tell you about a client I was recently chatting with. Life was hard prior to the Mission. I watched him in Bible class struggle with the issues he was being taught. The faithful support of our donors allowed him to address the issues that brought him to the Mission in the first place. Today, he has completed our program and is in our 45 day extension program. Is he “out of the woods” – no. There is still a lot he has to work on. I need you to pray that he is accepted into our halfway house program.

Underground Soul Tour to Benefit CRM Tonight

Bilal, Eric Roberson and Yahzarah will perform tonight, July 23rd at Tempo. Proceeds will benefit the Florence Crittendon Foundation & the Charlotte Rescue Mission.

Click here for more details.

We Need Locks!

When our clients enter the program, they are given a small locker to store what little personal belongings they have. We ask potential clients to bring their own lock on admission date but as you can imagine, not many have their own locks! Thus, we either buy most of them or have them donated. We could really use donations of locks to save on overhead costs so if you have some laying around (in good working order) we would really appreciate them and so would our clients!

Rising Food Costs

Unless you've lived in a cave for the last several years, you've noticed that food prices have been steadily increasing. At Charlotte Rescue Mission, we have a lot of our food donated but since we serve about 450 meals a day (even during the Summer), we have to purchase a significant amount as well.

For several years now, we have been known for our $1.79 meal price thanks to donated food and volunteer kitchen help. However, due to rising food costs, our average meal price has increased to about $1.92. If you receive communication from us from here on out, it will reflect this new amount.

$1.92 is still an incredibly low price considering the quality of what is served. $1.92 doesn't just buy some dry rice & beans. When we say "meal", we mean a hot, balanced meal served with a drink and usually a dessert or pastry. Interested in serving a meal? Contact Andria Tindall to find out more about volunteer opportunities.

Historic Badin Triathlon Video

Father & Son: Building aTradition to Remember

What started out as class credits 2.5 years ago for Stephen Linson who attends South Meck High School, ended up being a tradition for himself and father Jeff Linson. The father and son team get up every Saturday morning at 4:30am to arrive at the Charlotte Rescue Mission to serve breakfast. They both enjoy helping others as they build a stronger bond between each other.

Son, Stephen Linson and father Jeff enjoy making a difference in a cooperative effort bigger than themselves. Jeff says, “The men at the mission are good men who are restoring their lives and we want to be a part of the process”. Ironically it did not begin as a father-son event but our relationship has benefited from it. It is neat to see my son Stephen who is a junior in high school growing independently as a leader and forming his own relationships”. Jeff also grew up watching his father serve in New Jersey, Rescue Mission when he was younger.

Pursuing New Life in Christ

Let me give you a glimpse of what I see each day here at the mission. There was a client who told me about the self destructive behavior that was still a temptation to him. We talked about not quitting, but pursuing the New Life God had for him. A few days later, we had a different, but similar conversation. He continues to address the issues that brought him to the Mission.

There are men and women who have no respite from the heat of summer or the storms of life. The partnership of our generous supporters allows the Mission to be a refuge from misery--a place to eat, rest, and be encouraged in their search for hope. Together, we really are helping to make a difference.

Historic Badin Triathlon - Registration Still Open

The Charlotte Rescue Mission, (CRM) is hosting the Historic Badin Triathlon, Saturday June 7, 2008 beginning at 8am. The gracious town of Badin , NC is giving of their time, scenic historical amenities and small town hospitality. Mayor of Badin, police, fire and Best of Badin Club members volunteering of their time will raise the heartbeat of swimmers, runners and cyclers while bringing awareness to the issues regarding substance abuse in our community.

The Charlotte Rescue Mission is a 120 day recovery program for men and women overcoming drug and alcohol addictions. The Charlotte Rescue Mission is in need of participants to compete in all 3 events; swimming 750 meters, cycling 11.4 miles and running a 5K. Badin Triathlon in Badin , NC takes begins at 8:AM June 7th with the swim competition starting at the boat landing, followed by cycling and running. The town of Badin has 4 large events per year to promote the city and this will be their 2nd event. To register visit www.setupevents.com

Directions: From Charlotte take 24/27 to Albemarle . The distance is about 40 miles from Charlotte to Albemarle . At the intersection of 24/27 and 740 go straight. Belk's departments store is on the right. 740 go’s straight and takes you to the boat landing in the Town of Badin where the event is being held. From the intersection of 740 and 24/27 it is about fives miles to Badin.

For more information regarding this event call Gary Kauffman at 704-334-4635 x208. For media relation matters please call Francene Marie Morris @ 704-258-9901.

Summer of Hope

While most of us associate summer with carefree days of rest and relaxation, there’s no vacation from homelessness here in the Charlotte area. Every day, all year long, the struggle to survive continues. And street life under the summer sun can bring additional health risks--from lack of water or food spoilage.

Here at Charlotte Rescue Mission, we need help from the entire community as we kick off our "Summer of Hope" campaign for 2008. As you may know, our program beds stay full whether it's December or July. Click here to see how you can get involved.

2008 Friends of the Friendless Appreciation Dinner

We call our monthly and quarterly giving program "Friends of the Friendless". Each year, we have a dinner in May to give back a small token of our appreciation to our faithful donors. Contact Tim Troutman for more information on becoming a monthly supporter.

Bank of America Group Volunteers @ CRM

Many thanks to the Bank of America - SSE Associates led by You Vang who sorted and organized clothing as well as served lunch at the mission recently.

At a separate time, Bank of America SEPC Group led by Jerry Swisshelm provided and served lunch as well. Thanks to Bank of America and to both of these groups and to all the volunteer groups who make our ministry possible. Interested in learning how your business or church group can get involved? Contact Andria Tindall by email or phone 704-334-4635 x214. Here are some pictures from SSE Associates:

Mother's Day For Dove's Nest Clients

May is the month we celebrate Mother’s Day. Unfortunately, the women at our Dove’s Nest program do not celebrate the holiday the way that you and I do. Instead, they see themselves as failures – both as mothers and as wives.

One woman came into our program just after Thanksgiving. In her own words she said, “I was dead when I walked through the doors of the Charlotte Rescue Mission Dove’s Nest program”. Days before completing the 4 month program, I asked her what was the longest period of time she had been clean and sober, she looked at me and said, “The 4 months I have been at Dove’s Nest”.

As we celebrate this month of listening to children say to their mothers, “I’m glad to have you as mine”, know that there are hundreds of women who will hear those words because so many supporters cared.

2008 Volunteer Appreciation Luncheon

In case you missed it, last Wednesday was our first annual volunteer appreciation luncheon. Here's a 10 minute video of highlights:



Thanks to all the volunteers who make this ministry possible.

CRM on Facebook

Charlotte Rescue Mission now has its own Facebook page. Check us out and become a fan to help spread the word about the life changing work we do.

We have videos and pictures and more to come.

Doves Nest CCD Dedication

Dove's Nest will be holding the dedication of the re-opening of the "Continuing Care Division" on Sunday April 20 at 11:45 AM. The location is:

St. John's Baptist Church
300 Hawthorne Ln
Charlotte, NC

Everyone is welcome to attend.

Friends of the Friendless

We call our monthly and quarterly giving program the "Friends of the Friendless". This is an exciting time of year for this group. Every year in May, we hold our annual appreciation dinner. This year's dinner will be held on May 8th. We're in the process of growing the Friends of the Friendless so if you're interested in learning more, contact Tim Troutman to request a brochure by mail or visit our Friends of the Friendless web page.

This is a short clip from last year's banquet. BTW, if you make a decision to partner with us on a monthly or quarterly basis between now and May 2, you and a guest can attend this year's banquet. We hope to see you there.

Crosspath

This week's CrossPath topics are up and available for listening. Here are the topics covered:

Mon	What is the miracle of the story of the woman caught in adultery?
Tue	What is the miracle of the story of the woman at the well?
Wed	Can Jesus be present and we miss him?
Thu	Do you have Good News and Bad News?
Fri	Do you work with “those people”?

Shower for Dove's Nest CCD

Please join us at St. John's Baptist church for Dove's Nest CCD's re-opening shower. Remember, we are registered at Target.

The date is Saturday, April 12 2008 from 2:00 PM - 4:00 PM

Hope to see you there!

Rebound's Pre-Program

Most of our supporters know that our program beds stay full year round. Some wonder what happens when someone wants to be admitted to our program when we don't have the space. We have an area we call "pre-program". There are 13 beds in the pre-program area where men can wait for one of our 134 men's program beds to open up. When a person decides that they're ready to make a change in their life, it is imperative to get them off the streets and away from negative influences as soon as possible. Our pre-program area allows this to happen.

The other day, I walked by and saw five or six men huddled around a small table. I looked on and saw that they were playing Monopoly. I had to smile... just a day or two ago these men were on the streets and their only idea of entertainment was using drugs or alcohol. Now not only were they sober, but they were passionately enjoying something you or I might take for granted - a simple board game. This is the start of their new life - a life that doesn't depend on substances for fulfillment.

What Is Addiction?

Such a simple question, but it requires a complex answer. The American Heritage® Stedman’s Medical Dictionary states that addiction is Habitual psychological or physiological dependence on a substance or practice beyond one’s voluntary control. The American Medical Association’s definition of alcoholism and other drug addiction is “…an illness that is characterized by significant impairment in the emotional, psychological, spiritual, physical, and social areas that is directly associated with the persistent and excessive use of alcohol and drugs. Impairment may involve psychological or social dysfunction. Alcoholism and other drug addictions also are manifested as a type of drug dependence of pathological extant and pattern, which ordinarily interferes seriously with the patient’s mental and physical health and his adaptation to his environment”.

Many people believe that addiction is simply an inability to stop abusing alcohol and/or other drugs due to a lack of willpower and self-control. The reality is; addiction is a primary, chronic disease as evidenced by the presence of an onset, progression, and predictable outcome. The disease is considered primary since it affects all of life’s domains and must be treated to cease the progression. People with the disease of addiction often state they tried unsuccessfully to stop using on their own, continued using despite negative consequences, loss of social and family relationships, increased tolerance, withdrawal symptoms, and spending a great deal of time engaging in activities necessary to obtain their substance of choice. If willpower alone were enough, there would only be a fraction of the reported number of alcoholics and drug addicts.

There are many different philosophies regarding recovery from the disease of addiction, and here at the Charlotte Rescue Mission, we believe that recovery requires addressing the mind, body, and spirit. Participants of the Rebound Men’s Program are taught the process of the disease of addiction, are required to attend 12-Step fellowship meetings, obtain a sponsor, and begin working the 12 steps of Alcoholics Anonymous or Narcotics Anonymous. Admitting powerlessness and unmanageability (step one) allows a person to take ownership of the disease and begin the process of putting the disease in remission.

The simple answer to the initial question is: addiction is a primary disease, with proper treatment and a person’s ability to change, the disease can be arrested and a positive outcome is achievable.

- Thomas G. Strouse Admissions Supervisor

Upcoming Cross Path Topics

If you don't get a chance to here it on the air, listen on the web

Mon -31	Did you ever feel lost?
Tue - 1	Have you ever thought God abandoned you?
Wed - 2	Why is Scripture Amazing?
Thu - 3	What is that “Ah Hah” moment in the chapel
Fri - 4	Is Heart Burn Biblical?

The Road To Emmaus

This week's Crosspath topic is "The Road to Emmaus". If you didn't catch it on air, you can listen online.

Serving a Meal at the Mission

Here's one volunteer's recent experience serving a meal at the mission. We thought we'd share it:

What an incredible weekend we had! Friday afternoon our Sunday school class headed to the Charlotte Rescue Mission where we cooked and served the men there a yummy meal. It was so powerful for me! I had no clue that this place was a rehab center, I thought it was a homeless shelter, and then I thought for some reason that all of the men there would be Christians......wrong.

Read the rest of the story on her blog.

Easter 2008 at the Mission

Here's some news coverage from WSOC on Easter Sunday 2008:

CHARLOTTE, N.C. -- The Charlotte Rescue Mission on W. 1st Street in Uptown has been busy all morning preparing hot meals for its guests this Easter Sunday.

Executive Director of the Charlotte Rescue Mission Rev. Tony Marciano said, "We make coming to the Rescue Mission on Easter Sunday as special as going to your grandmother's house."

Breakfast started as early as 6 a.m., followed by a continental breakfast from 8 a.m. to 11 a.m. Then a traditional turkey dinner with all the fixings will be served between 11:30 a.m. and 2:30 p.m.

Volunteers from the Journey Church really went out of their way this year to provide a special experience by wearing uniforms typically seen in fine dining restaurants. And all tables are set with china and Oneida glassware.

Other Easter activities at the Rescue Mission include showing movies throughout the day. And new this year, free cell phones from Sprint Cingular phone service will be available for guests to call friends and family members.

Read the whole thing here.

Another Succesful Hope Totes Campaign

We'd like to extend our deepest gratitude to all of those who helped make this years Hope Totes campaign a huge success.

Above we have volunteer coordinator Andria Tindall and Scottish Bank's Kiki Koutsokalis (Retail Branch Administrator).

Scottish Bank partnered with us again in 2008 to provide drop off locations for the Hope Totes. A special thanks goes out to Scottish Bank president John Stedman.

New Certification for a Counselor

Charlotte Rescue Mission & the Rebound Staff would like to congratulate our Therapeutic Recreation Counselor, Reggie Lee who has just successfully completed his oral exam and is now a Certified Substance Abuse Counselor (CSAC).

Reggie works with our clients during their program to teach them how to use recreational time productively instead of reverting to drugs or alcohol. Now this vital part of our ministry will be even more effective. Congratulations Reggie!

Desserts Needed for Easter

Charlotte Rescue Mission is providing an Easter Community Dinner on Sunday, March 23, 2008. We are in need of homemade desserts to serve our homeless neighbors in the area. Anyone wanting to share a family treasured dessert can drop them off at the Charlotte Rescue Mission information desk up until Easter Sunday at 10am.

The address is 907 W. 1st street Charlotte, NC 28233, diagonally opposite the Panthers practice field off of Cedar. To reach us by phone please call 704-334-4635

“We make coming to the Rescue Mission on Easter Sunday as special as going to your grandmother’s house” says Rev. Tony Marciano, Executive Director of the Charlotte Rescue Mission.

It all begins with a hot breakfast from 6:00 – 7:30am. A continental breakfast will be served from 8:00 to 11:00 am, followed by our traditional turkey dinner with all the fixings, including our delicious homemade desserts, served between 11:30 and 2:30pm. There will be movies shown during the day. Cell phone will be available for guests to use.

“In addition, our dinner guests will be treated like royalty” says Marciano. “Volunteers will be dressed in white shirts, black pants or skirts to resemble fine dining wait staff. Our guests will be served with heaping portions of food on china, while using silverware and Oneida glass ware, all on a table cloth. There will also be a cloth napkin, folded in a fan, coming from the glass. It resembles a wedding reception.”

The 6am hot breakfast will consist of scrambled eggs, grits, sausage patties, biscuits, orange juice and coffee. Volunteers from Journey Church are preparing and providing the meal.

This Easter, the Charlotte Rescue Mission has been supplied with the use of free cell phones from Sprint cellular phone service. These cell phones are used by the guests to call home to family and friends.

“I’ve heard guests call home and say, “Mom, I’m ok. I’m at the Charlotte Rescue Mission”” says Marciano.

The midday meal will consist of turkey, mashed potatoes and gravy, green beans, yam, dressing, cranberry sauce and dessert. 112 turkeys are being prepared for the meal. The Easter meal is open to the public. In addition to the homeless, the Mission opens its doors to anyone who wants to celebrate Easter in a family setting.

Charlotte Rescue mission provides a free 90-day Christian residential program for men and women who are addicted to drugs and/or alcohol and are predominately homeless.

Times:
Hot breakfast 6:00 am to 7:30am.
Continental breakfast 8:00 am to 11: am
Easter Dinner 11:30 to 2:30
Movies 6:00 am to 3:00 pm
Cell phones 9:00am to 3:00pm

Where: 907 W 1st Street Charlotte, NC 28233
Diagonally opposite the Panther Practice Fields

Dove's Nest Continuing Care Division

In 2001, we had to discontinue Dove's Nest aftercare program due to lack of funding. Now thanks to generous donors across the Charlotte region and the partnership of St. John's Baptist Church, we are set to re-open! This will give women the opportunity to continue developing life skills after they complete the Dove's Nest program. It can be most readily pictured as a "stepping-stone" back into society.

How can you help out? Dove's Nest Continuing Care Division is now registered at Target baby registry. Consider purchasing an item or two to help us get this project off the ground. Or if you'd like to volunteer or just want to learn more about Dove's Nest, call Andria at 704-334-4635 x214.

Volunteers Still Needed

We still need about 50 volunteers for Easter Sunday which is quickly approaching. Please prayerfully consider volunteering just a few hours of your time on Sunday to share God's love with those in need. Call Andria at 704-334-4635 x214 for more information or to volunteer.

Here's Our Video From Last Year.



*Update - Thanks for the great response, we have enough volunteers now!*

New Contributors for CRM's Blog

Later this month, Charlotte Rescue Mission's Rebound Staff will begin contributing to the blog as well. Rebound is the men's recovery program for Charlotte Rescue Mission. Our counselors are all professionally certified substance abuse counselors and will have some excellent insight to share with our readers. In the future, we hope to have contributions from Dove's Nest (our women's program) staff as well.

Crosspath Update

Crosspath, Rev. Marciano's daily radio broadcast, is changing times on WMIT. Instead of 9:25 PM, Crosspath can now be heard at 8:25 PM on WMIT. Of course, all of the Crosspath shows are available on the web.

Here are the upcoming topics for the weeks of March 10th and 17th:

Day	Date	Transition Question
Mon	3-10	What is an IBM card?
Tue	3-11	Are the clients I see at CRM the real self?
Wed	3-12	Were Christians ever perfect?
Thu	3-13	What is one of your favorite verses?
Fri	3-14	Can we change by merely wishing change to be?
Mon	3-17	Can we change others?
Tue	3-18	Is crying over what could have been a good idea?
Wed	3-19	What is that hymn you loved to sing?
Thu	3-20	Is having “fun” ok
Fri	3-21	Can people change?

Easter Sunday

Easter Sunday is one of our outreaches to the community. The day begins with breakfast and continues with opportunities for our guests to use cell phones or watch movies. At our noon day meal, they will be treated like “royalty”. Volunteers, dressed in white shirts and black pants will serve them. China and glassware will be used. At 3pm, when I turn off the movies, some will become teary eyed when it all comes to an end. For the first time in a long time, they have felt loved and respected.

Here's our video from last year's Easter:



The 200,000 meals per year you help provide are just part of the story. It’s about the man in our Rebound men’s program who realizes that God loved him and went from sitting in back of the class to the front. It’s about the woman in our Dove’s Nest program who returned home with the tools to stay clean and sober.

The miracle at Calvary is still changing lives daily.

Volunteers Needed for Easter Dinner

Every year, Charlotte Rescue Mission opens their doors to hundreds of Charlotte's homeless men and women for their Easter meal. We still need volunteers to help us serve this year.

We invite individuals, couples and families to join us and celebrate Easter Sunday. The Mission will open to the public from 6:00 a.m. on Easter and stay open for guests until 2:30 p.m. The morning will begin with a hot breakfast from 6:00 am until 7:30 am. Coffee and Danish will be available from 8:00 am until 11:00 am. Movies will be shown in our chapel beginning at 6:00 a.m. The main dinner meal will be served from 11:30 until 2:30 pm. Cell phones provided by Sprint will be available from 8:30-2:30 so guest can make long distance calls to friend and family.

Please be aware that this event is not a typically “feeding of the homeless holiday meal.” Our goal is to treat our guests as VIPs; they will be seated at their table, use china, glasses and silverware, and be waited on as if they were in an expensive restaurant. There will be a more laid back, casual atmosphere for the hot breakfast. All volunteers will be on their feet and moving the entire length of their assigned shift. If you are not physically able to handle this amount of activity, please let us know. Please eat and use the facilities before your shift begins or after your shift is over. We are expecting a capacity filled crowd and can not afford to have volunteers leave their position.

Volunteer Shift Times: Volunteers will work in one of two shifts. The first shift runs from 10:30 AM until 1:30 PM. Volunteers from the second shift will relieve the first shift at 1:00 pm. Volunteers are welcome to eat after they complete their assignment. The second shift runs from 12:30 PM until 3:30 pm. We will have a few people work an early shift from 8:30 am until 11:00 am with the cell phones and Chapel supervisors.

Volunteer Registration Process

• Choose your shift: 8-11 am 10:30 – 1:30pm or 12:30 – 3:30pm
• Contact Andria Tindall at 704 334-4635 ext. 214 or email andria_t@charlotterescuemission.org to reserve your spot
• All volunteers are required to attend a 30 minute orientation on Easter Sunday

Running Into a Rebound Graduate

Just a few days ago, I was at a Bojangles getting breakfast. I heard a voice call my name. I smiled. I knew it would be a former client. I was right. It was a man who had graduated from our men’s Rebound program six years ago. Six years ago, he was doing whatever it took to keep himself in active addiction. Today, he is gainfully employed at one of our city’s corporations.

To every other guest at Bojangles that morning, he was just another customer. To me, he was a story of God’s grace that was poured into a struggling life.

Upcoming Crosspath Topics

This week's Crosspath radio program has been uploaded. See the following topics for the next two weeks:

Day	Date	Transition Question
Mon	2-18	Are there 29 characteristics for marital harmony
Tue	2-19	What does Peppy Le Peu have to do with marital harmony
Wed	2-20	Is marriage like flies on a screen door
Thu	2-21	Is curiosity important in marriage
Fri	2-22	What do oxen have to do with marriage
Mon	2-25	What does marriage drift towards?
Tue	2-26	Is Marriage 50 50
Wed	2-27	Can you be selfish in a 3 legged race
Thu	2-28	What are we guaranteed to have in life?
Fri	2-29	What is the natural drift of marriage

Increase in Winter Shelter Food & Another Success Story

As you read this, our kitchen is busier than ever. For the past ten years, we have been responsible for providing the evening meal to homeless men at the Emergency Winter Shelter. This season, we are experience a 40% increase in meals this fall vs. last fall.

In addition, each day, the clients in the Rebound and Dove’s Nest programs work hard to turn around their life from the self destructive habits that drove them to the streets. At a recent class I conducted at our Dove’s Nest program, I talked to one woman who has been with us since October. I remember her first few days, trying to tell me everything she thought. She didn’t realize her best thinking lead her to the streets. Today, she is about to complete our program. She is much more humble, willing to learn, anxious to learn the tools we teach so that the streets will become a thing of the past.

Charlotte Region's Growth Strains Homeless Service Providers

From the Charlotte Observer:

Since 2000 an average of 39,000 people a year have moved into Mecklenburg County from out of state; 20,000 from another N.C. county; and 6,400 from overseas, the American Community Survey reports.In 10 years, the county's population will jump to 1.3 million from roughly 900,000, the Charlotte Chamber estimates.

No one knows exactly how many newcomers are poor or jobless, but a UNC Charlotte analysis of government statistics suggests "a lot of newcomers are poor, come here seeking opportunities and don't find them," said Jeff Michael, director the university's Urban Institute, which compiled the report.

The study found the percentage of people living in poverty in Mecklenburg County rose to about 11.3 percent in 2005 compared with 9.2 percent in 2000.

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At the Salvation Army homeless shelter for women near uptown, officials tracked how many people sought shelter who had been in Mecklenburg less than one year. They found more than 1 in 4 clients were newcomers from July 2006 through June 2007.

Last week, 205 women and their children slept at the 200-bed facility. Some 50 other clients spent the night at a local church.

To ease crowding, administrators recently decided they will not admit anyone who is not a resident of Mecklenburg or neighboring counties, except in cases of domestic violence.

"We get dozens of calls each day asking if we have space," said Deronda Metz, director of social services for the Salvation Army of Greater Charlotte. "If the call is from a noncounty resident, we say no."

The number of homeless children attending Charlotte-Mecklenburg Schools jumped to more than 2,200 in 2007 from roughly 1,900 a year earlier, said Peter Safir, director of the Homeless Services Network, a coalition of local social outreach agencies.

Not Enough Beds for Charlotte's Homeless

The Observer recently ran this article on the emergency bed shortage in Charlotte:

The temperature dropped as the sun sank Sunday, and dozens of men hunched in the cold outside Charlotte's Emergency Winter Shelter, waiting for the door to open at 6 p.m.

Winter is the bleakest season for Charlotte's homeless people. The cold may have caught up with one man earlier Sunday.

Charlotte-Mecklenburg police officers found the body in a drugstore parking lot off Freedom Drive a little after 7, just before the morning cold dipped to its low of 24 degrees. Officers were familiar with the man, who they said was possibly homeless. A medical examiner, who could not be reached Sunday, will determine the cause of death.

Charlotte's low Sunday night was expected to plunge to 13 degrees. That would make it the coldest night so far this winter.

The deaths by exposure of three homeless men in 1981 prompted Charlotte to open the emergency shelter, which now operates in a former warehouse on Statesville Avenue.

But while social workers estimate that 5,000 to 8,000 people are homeless in Mecklenburg County on any given night, fewer than 2,000 shelter beds exist.

The men waiting outside Sunday told stories of lost jobs, old injuries, dead wives and burned apartments. Most didn't want to be quoted by their full names.

Surviving the streets in winter, they said, is a matter of constant motion to stay warm, seeking warm niches where they can and trying not to arouse attention.

"We go down to the transit (center) or walk up and down" the streets, said a 42-year-old chef named Craig. "Because they don't want us here before 4 p.m."

Craig wore a toboggan under a sweatshirt hood. His body bulged under two jackets and a heavy wool shirt.

Four p.m. is when the shelter opens its gates, allowing men to line up outside the building. They complain that they were forced to stand in rain and snow Saturday. They point out the suitcases, duffel bags and garbage bags, stuffed with belongings, that they keep stashed behind a storage bin.

"That's all we have in our life," said Bobby B, 49 and an Army vet, angrily poking a frozen pair of jeans with the metal cane he carries for a leg injury.

Director John White says staffing dictates when the doors must open and close -- the shelter is authorized to house 200 men a night, and often overflows to a nearby church. On Saturday night, in the snow, the door opened about 5:45 p.m., he said. Men are sometimes allowed to stay past the 6 a.m. closing if snow and ice are on the ground, he said.

The Salvation Army's shelter for women and children housed 205 people Saturday night, including 60 families, but allows them to stay during the day. An overflow shelter held another 50.

Winter "is terrible for women and children," said Deronda Metz, the Army's Charlotte director of social services. "They've been instructed not to turn anybody away."

The number of women in need continues to rise, regardless of the weather, she said.

Charlotte Rescue Mission operates the Emergency Winter Shelter and provides most of their food.

Need a Speaker for Your Group?

Rev. Tony Marciano, Executive Director of the Charlotte Rescue Mission is available to speak on a number of different topics for your Sunday school class or church group. No honorarium is accepted. This is our gift to the community.

To schedule him, contact Lyn B at 704 334 4635 ext. 213

I. Church, Sunday School, Christian Ed topics:

1. Keeping the Vision Alive for your life
2. Your Past does not have to define your future
3. Life’s challenges aren’t the end of the story
4. How to say “No” and still have friends
5. As different as we all are, we are still the same
6. What every man longs to hear from his father
7. Breaking Family Secrets
8. When the struggles of life make it hard to feel
9. A heartfelt response when someone forgives you
10. Why do you want to go back to Egypt?
11. When our heart feels as though is broken
12. Biblical look at Personality Temperaments

II. Men’s fellowship topics:

1. Biblical look at Personality Temperaments
2. Normal is just a setting on your dryer
3. What every man longs to hear from his father
4. Establishing independence from your family
5. Keeping God's Vision Alive for your life

40% Increase in the Emergency Winter Shelter Meals

As the Charlotte Rescue Mission serves the majority of the Emergency Winter Shelter meals they’re foreseeing increasing numbers rise even higher through April 30, 2008 when the Shelter closes its doors for the season.

Executive Director of the Charlotte Rescue Mission, Reverend Tony Marciano says,

“We get lots of cakes and pastries from our supportive community, but now we need the following in order to feed the rising numbers of homeless neighbors in our area. We need meat, chicken, fresh fruits and vegetables, grocery store gift cards and financial donations to maintain the feeding programs”.

When planning the budget for 2008 there was no idea meals would take on a 40% increase. The Charlotte Rescue Mission,(CRM) is committed to serving homeless men a hot meal at the Emergency Winter Shelter. Last year, in the Fall of 2006, 6,605 meals were prepared by Charlotte Rescue Mission and served at the Emergency Winter Shelter. Since the EWS opened on October 1st of 2007, the meals served through December 31st were 12,963.

“Just comparing November and December 2006 versus the same months in 2007 saw an increase of 2,602 meals” says Marciano.

Within a normal year the Charlotte Rescue Mission, (CRM) will serve their 200,000 meals. Some of those meals are served to hungry, homeless men at the Emergency Winter Shelter.

“The Rescue Mission needs the community to help with donations so CRM can keep up with the rising numbers of homeless in Charlotte" says Marciano. “The Mission will be as grateful as they have been since 1938.”

Have a Shredder to Donate?

Does your office have a shredder that you no longer need? Once upon a time, we were given a nice commercial grade shredder by a very generous donor.

That shredder has since seen its day and is in need of a replacement. We have a fairly high number of documents that need to be shredded regularly so a normal office shredder will not suffice.

If anyone happens to have a high volume shredder available, we would be greatly appreciative. Please contact Tim at 704-334-4635 x245.

CRM to be Featured at Charlotte's Healthy Living Fair

This year's Healthy Living Fair will be held on January 26 at the Charlotte Merchandise Mart. Admission is free to the public. Be sure to stop by and see Charlotte Rescue Mission's booth.

Joseph Beth Booksellers Book Fair

On Sunday January 27, Joseph Beth Booksellers at South Park Mall will host a book fair and 20% of the proceeds will go to Charlotte Rescue Mission. You can download your coupons here. Hope to see you there.

Crosspath: Boundaries

If you won't hear it in your car on WMIT or WHVN, join me on the web for my daily 5 minute talks called "CrossPath". This week's topic is "boundaries". Each day I discuss a different question:

What are boundaries?

Should I make other people’s problems my problem?

Did Bible Characters operate with boundaries?

What do you mean by Castles & hedges

Do the Panthers operate with boundaries?